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Buddhist Hour Broadcast 276
For Sunday 11 May 2003


This script is entitled:
How to bless others with words


Keywords: right speech, samma-vacca, blessing, wonderful words, talking, saying, chanting.

Glossary:

speech: 1. The action or faculty of speaking; the ability to express thoughts or feelings by articulate sounds, the utterance of words or sentences. 2. The language or dialect of a nation, people, group, etc. 3. Manner of speaking, especially that habitual to or characteristic of one particular person, group, etc. 4. Talk, conversation, discourse. The opportunity of speaking to, an audience or interview with.

word: a thing or things said, a remark or remarks, utterance


Lord Mancroft once said, "A speech is like a love affair - any fool can start one, but to end takes considerable skill".

Most persons take for granted the ability to speak but do they know how to use words skillfully?

What you say has a great effect on persons around you.

How you say something has an even greater effect than what you say.

Your intention and motivation behind your speaking changes the way the words you speak are received.

Pointing out mistakes to others in an unskillful way can hurt them.

Robert Burton once said that, "A blow with a word is deeper than a blow with a sword".

If you speak positively and encouragingly you can really bless other persons.

The Dharmapada reads:

"Careful in speech, controlled in body,
aware of the workings of the mind;
patient under insult, never angry;
this is the path of great progress."

The New Shorter Oxford English Dictionary defines speech as:

1. The action or faculty of speaking; the ability to express thoughts or feelings by articulate sounds, the utterance of words or sentences.

2. The language or dialect of a nation, people, group, etc.
Manner of speaking, especially that habitual to or characteristic of one particular person, group, etc.

3. Talk, conversation, discourse. The opportunity of speaking to, an audience or interview with.

Speech is a part of language. The way we use language is influenced by our culture.

George Bernard Shaw said, "I believe in the discipline of silence and can talk for hours about it"

When you think of a word, do you first think of it as standing for an idea?

Ferdinand de Saussure (1915) says this is one side of linguistic value.

He says we need to make clear the definition of language or risk reducing the definition to a simple naming-process.

De Saussure defines language as a system of interdependent terms in which the value of each term rests solely on the simultaneous presence of the others.

Why do we use language?

David Crystal is a world-acclaimed writer on language.

Crystal explains that language is not only used to communicate our ideas, it is also used for emotional expression, social interaction, recording the facts, the instrumentation of thoughts and the expression of identity.

As speech is an important part of language we can make a link between the activities described by Crystal as the reasons we use language and the reasons we use speech.

This understanding can help us learn to use speech more skillfully.

Just because something is well written or pleasant to hear does not necessarily mean it is correct.

We must get beyond appearances.

W.H. Auden (1979) advised that, "You must learn to choose the truth before aesthetic preferences".

Some books have colourful pictures that are pretty but meaningless for learning. Others bring the mind to rest in a single glance with a few photographs.

We refer to the Dasabhadra Karmamarga Sutra where the Buddha says: He [or she] who abstains from lying will attain eight qualities, the possessing of which is commended by the Devas. What are they? They are: (1) His [or her] mouth is always clean and fragrant as the Utpala flower, (2) He [or she] commands the confidence and the obedience of all worlds, (3) What he [or she] says becomes proof and he himself [or she herself] is held in esteem by Devas and [humans], (4) He [or she] is in the habit of giving comforts to all sentient beings by kind words, (5) He [or she] gets refined pleasure and his speech, action, and thought are all pure, (6) He [or she] makes no blunder in speaking and his mind is always joyful, (7) His [or her] words carry weight and are respected and obeyed by Devas and [humans], (8) His [or her] wisdom is extraordinary and inferior to none. Should he turn his [or she turn her] good merits towards the cause of Anutara Samyak Sambodhi, he will gain in his [or she in her] future Buddhahood the Buddha attribute of truthful speech".

At Chan Academy Australia, we write in accordance with the Dhamma to reach persons who have minds well developed from western education, but uncultivated from the viewpoint of Dhamma, and for well-educated persons with Dhamma in their heart but who desire to learn to speak and write in this English language as a special language. Many persons, Devas and Devatas help guide us in developing our writing style.

Like food and cooking, English writing styles are formed by geographical boundaries. We do not wish to inflame a Sydney/Melbourne controversy, nevertheless it is true that the image and style of Sydney television, newspapers and radio is distinct from Melbourne television, newspapers and radio. We would not be surprised if future historians refer to our writing style as the Melbourne style.

The words of Buddha Dhamma are potent. The practice of Buddha Dhamma is enduring. We are able to make merit in three distinct ways from writing Buddha Dhamma for Dana. Firstly we present it as an object of hearing consciousness, for example, sound on radio broadcasts and Dhamma talks. We care for the words that have been written in many Buddha Dhamma texts.

In Buddha Dhamma, although some words and phrases take on special meaning, free of doubt or confusion, Buddha Dhamma is not taught by the method of the dictionary. Secondly, we provide it in proper written form so that seeing consciousness can be used. Thirdly, we place it on the Internet with hypertext to awaken the mind.

We aim to continue to write in our polyglot style but stay non-provocative while making boundaries clear when they exist and need explanation within our religion.

Today we are speaking about how to bless others with words.

The Venerable Master Hsing Yun explains that,
"Speech is so important to the successful practice of Buddhism that the Buddha accorded it the same prominence as the mind and the body."

Good, bad and neutral actions can be made with body, speech and mind.

Merit is the reward of good actions.

The Buddha said that good speech generates ten kinds of merit.

The ten kinds of merit that good speech generates are listed in Master Hsing Yun's book, "Being Good".

These ten are:
a warm voice;
fluent speech;
the ability to reason well;
accurate speech;
straightforward speech;
fearless speech;
beautiful speech;
respectful speech;
the ability to speak well about the Dharma;
and a good rebirth once this life is over.

These ten kinds of merit arising from good speech are useful to the Buddha Dhamma Practitioner in blessing other persons.

This Friday, 16 May 2003 Buddha Dhamma Practitioners around the world celebrate Versak in many ways.

Versak is a most important occasion as it is the date that Buddha Sakyamuni was born, attained Supreme Enlightenment and passed away.

Versak is the name of a month on the lunar calendar that was used over 2500 years ago.

In the local system, it is the full moon in the month of May in our calendar. Where two full moon days occur in that month, Versak is celebrated on the second.

It is usual on this day for Buddha Dhamma practitioners to make generous offerings of water, rice, flowers and incense.

Many of our Members will choose to take eight precepts on this day and to practice mindfulness strongly.

The practice of mindfulness can help us with developing right speech.

Right Speech is one aspect of the eightfold path taught by the Buddha as a means to be free from suffering.

The Noble Eightfold Path is:

1. Right View - Samma Ditthi
2. Right Thought or Right Concentration - Samma Sankappa
3. Right Speech - Samma Vaca
4. Right Conduct - Samma Kammanta
5. Right Livelihood - Samma Ajiva
6. Right Effort - Samma Vayama
7. Right Mindfulness - Samma Sati
8. Right Contemplation - Samma Samadhi

We cease to be mad, bad or sad when we practice the Noble Eightfold Path.

Today we are speaking about how to bless others with words.

The fourth mindfulness training can help persons with the practice of right speech.

Thich Nhat Hanh eloquently explains The Fourth Mindfulness Training:

"Aware of the suffering caused by unmindful speech and the inability to listen to others, I am committed to cultivating loving speech and deep listening in order to bring joy and happiness to others and relieve others of their suffering, I am determined to speak truthfully, with words that inspire self-confidence, joy and hope. I will not spread news that I do not know to be certain and will not criticize or condemn things of which I am not sure. I will refrain from uttering words that can cause division or discord, or that can cause the family or community to break. I am determined to make all efforts to reconcile and resolve all conflicts, however small."

This description of the Fourth Mindfulness Training offers a practical way of coming to Right Speech.

In the last week our Teacher John D. Hughes received the following blessing:

"With very best wishes

To dear John

May your faith in the Triple Gem and the dedication to the Dhamma bless you with a full and speedy recovery.

From Ranjith and Pushpa (Hettiarachi) and all of us at the Buddhist Foundation (Victoria) Australia.

On the advice of Master Ru Sun, the Medicine Buddha Practice was intensified last week to assist our Teacher John D. Hughes with his recovery.
During the seven days members have chanted the Quan Yin title; "Quan Yin Bodhisattva" as many times as possible.

Our Teacher has taught chanting to many persons over twenty years. Regular chanting adds much power to our Centre.

Patrul Rinpoche wrote "In the Words of My Perfect Teacher":

"Indeed, all beings, ourselves included, show particular talent in discovering wrong paths to take - while when it comes to following the path leading to liberation and omniscience we are as confused as a blind person wandering alone in the middle of a deserted plain.

"Ordinary people like each of us are, for the most part, easily influenced by the people and circumstances around us.

"This is why we should always follow a teacher, a spiritual friend.

"In the sandalwood forests of the Malaya mountains, when an ordinary tree falls, its wood is gradually impregnated with the sweetest perfume of the sandal. After some years that ordinary wood comes to smell as sweet as the sandal trees around it. In just the same way, if you live and study with a perfect teacher full of good qualities, you will be permeated by the perfume of those qualities and in everything you do will come to resemble him.

"Just as the trunk of an ordinary tree
Lying in the forests of the Malaya mountains
Absorbs the perfume of sandal from the moist leaves and branches, So you come to resemble whomever you follow."

"A courageous disciple, armoured with the determination never to displease his (or her) teacher even at the cost of his (or her) life, so stable-minded that he is never shaken by immediate circumstances, who serves his teacher without caring about his own health survival and obeys his every command without sparing himself at all - such a person will be liberated simply through his devotion to the teacher."

One student of John D. Hughes recalls an occasion where words were a true blessing for him.

It was in 2002 when he accompanied our Teacher John D. Hughes and his wife Anita to the Atisha Centre in Bendigo to hear a Dhamma Teaching by Geshe Tashi Tsering.

Our Teacher and the Geshe have known each other for many years.

During this visit the Geshe took the hand of our teacher's attendant and driver and said to the student, "Look after Baba".

The title Baba means great teacher.

You can view photographs of this occasion on our website at www.bsbonline.com.au.

His Holiness Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche (1910-1991) wrote in "The Wish Fullfilling Jewel" that:
"The guru is like a wish-fulfilling jewel granting all the qualities of realisation, a father and mother giving their love equally to all sentient beings, a great river of compassion, a mountain rising above worldly concerns unshaken by the winds of emotion, and a great cloud with rain to soothe the torments of the passions.

In brief, he is the equal of all the Buddhas. To make any connection with him, whether through seeing him, hearing his voice, remembering him, or being touched by his hand, will lead us to liberation.

To have full confidence in him is the sure way to progress toward enlightenment. The warmth of his wisdom and compassion will melt the ore of our being and release the gold of the Buddha nature within."

His Holiness Dilgo Khyentse Rinpoche quoted a verse:
"when the sun of fierce devotion shines
on the snow mountain of the guru's four kayas,
the stream of blessings will pour down.
Therefore, strive to generate devotion in your mind."

Today, Sunday 9 May 2003 is Mother's Day. Many persons around the world bless their Mother on this day by recognising her kindness. Many take this opportunity to spend time together, to prepare food for their mother or offer her flowers or adornments.

This Mother's Day, our organisation the Chan Academy Australia is running two flower stalls, one on Swansea Road Lilydale and the other on Stud Rd Wantirna.

There are ten blessings arising from the offering of flowers. They are:
long life;
good health;
strength;
beauty;
wisdom;
ease along the Buddha Dhamma Path;
being born in beautiful environments;
born with good skin, hair and beautiful to look at;
always having a sweet smelling body;
pleasant relationships with friends.

Buy flowers for your Mother or loved ones this Mothers' Day Sunday 11 May 2003 at our flower stalls at Stud Rd Wantirna and Swansea Rd Lilydale.

May the merits of this script be dedicated to our Teacher John D. Hughes recovery.

May our Teacher John D. Hughes return home to our Temple in Brooking Street Upwey very soon.

May you have kind words and actions towards you Mother this life.

May your words be a blessing to those around you.

May you develop right speech.

May you be well and happy.


The authors, editors and scribes of this script are Julian Bamford, Evelin Halls, David Ley, Lisa Nelson, Pennie White and Leanne Eames.



References

Brown, Leslie (Editor) (1993) The New Shorter Oxford Lord English Dictionary, Clarendon Press, Oxford, pp 2975-2976.

Burton, Robert cited in Dhammananda, K Sri (1999) Food for the Thinking Mind, Buddhist Missionary Society, Kuala Lumpur.

de Saussure, Ferdinand (1915) extract from Course in General Linguistics cited in Modern Literary Theory edited by Philip Rice and Patricia Waugh, pp 10-11.

Dharmapada cited in Yun, Master Hsing "Being Good", Weatherhill Inc. New York p 7.

Halls, Evelin., White Pennie (2003) "Samma-vacca Right speech", Abhidhamma Class No. 46, 6 Chan Academy Australia, Melbourne available at URL www.bddronline.net.au and www.bdcu.org.au.

Hanh, Thich Nhat (1998) The Heart of the Buddha's Teaching: Transforming Suffering into Peace, Joy and Liberation, Rider, London.

Hughes, John D.; Hughes, Anita; Halls Evelin; and Bamford Julian; (2002) Preparation and review of merit needed by participants for Abhidhamma Teaching at our Centre 2002 to 2011 CE, Chan Academy Australia, Melbourne available at URL www.bdcu.org.au and www.bdcublessings.net.au accessed on 10 May 2003.

Hughes, John D.: Hughes, Jocelyn; Halls, Evelin; Macleod, Vanessa; Oellien, Rilla; Nelson, Lisa; and Hamilton, Marguerita, The Buddhist Hour Radio Broadcast for Sunday 29 July 2001, Hillside Radio 88 FM, Cultivating Proper Tools Towards Practicing Right View, Chan Academy Australia, Melbourne.

Hughes, John D.; Nelson, Lisa; and Halls, Evelin, The Buddhist Hour Radio Broadcast for Sunday 8 July 2001, "Buddha Dhamma Teachings at the Buddhist Discussion Centre (Upwey) Ltd.", Chan Academy Australia, Melbourne.

Khyentse Rinpoche (1999) Dilgo His Holiness. The Wish-Fulfilling Jewel, Shambala, Boston and London.

Mancroft, Lord cited in Dhammananda, K Sri (1999) Food for the Thinking Mind, Buddhist Missionary Society, Kuala Lumpur.

Rinpoche, Patrul (1998) "In the Words of My Perfect Teacher", Shambala, Publications, Boston, USA, 1998, p 138.

Shaw, George Bernard cited in Dhammananda, K Sri (1999) Food for the Thinking Mind, Buddhist Missionary Society, Kuala Lumpur.

Upasaka Wong Mou-lan Chinese to English translation, Sikshananda-nanajio Sanskrit to Chinese translation, The Buddhabhasita Dasabhadra Karmamarga Sutra, Bilingual Buddhist Series Sutras and Scriptures Volume One, Rev. Shih Tsy Huey publisher, Taiwan R.O.C. pp 276-277.
Yun, Master Hsing (1998) "Being Good", Weatherhill Inc. New York, p.23, 24.


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